Showing posts with label power. Show all posts
Showing posts with label power. Show all posts

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Searching for a principle

It got crazy cold last night...something like -5 degrees Farenheit.  We received two inches of snow yesterday and so it seemed like nothing would melt today; even at church it was still only about 5 degrees Farenheit when I took this video.  Nothing should melt, right?

But watch this dull, dull video of some snow melting on the sign.  That's right, it's actually melting, though one might think that it's something like 25 degrees too cold to melt.  But the property of the metal, combined with the bright sunshine, and you can watch it melt in real time...this is not a time-elapsed video.  In the course of less than a minute it visibly melted.

So, there's gotta be a spiritual principle here, right?  It hit me as I was watching this that nothing is impossible for God, the very principle about which I preached from Luke 1:37, when Mary is told by the angel that yes, she can have a baby.  It's an expression that occurs a number of times in Scripture, reminding us that the things that seem impossible with us are nothing compared to the almighty God we serve. In the dark and bright moments, in the hot and cold times in which we live, God is still mighty to save.

Maybe it's not that big a deal, really...I've seen this many times before.  But when it comes to God and his work, do we stop long enough to be in awe of what he does?

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Fear and Loathing in Church Gender Wars

A second article this week about self-righteous conversations that go on in my head...guess I need to do some mind cleansing.

One of my ongoing interests through these years in ministry is seeing how gender roles are played out in churches.  After all my years of study, I'm not convinced by either 'side' that they are really right.  While I believe that the egalitarian crowd is a bit presumptuous with what they think Jesus was all about, I also think that the non-egalitarians have mishandled the so-called Scriptural prohibitions about female leadership.  It's not an easy question by any means, and finding the right balance seems very much elusive.

But today I was thinking way back, maybe twenty years, to a conversation I heard about this topic.  I think I was in grad school at the time, and some of my fellow students were fixing the church world by their heated discussion. One of them was arguing for a more expanded role for women in church leadership when the other piped up with a response I have heard several times since: "If we open doors to women in this, they'll come in and take over and there won't be any men left!"  Maybe not the exact words, but the exact sentiment by my recollection.

Possibly the most troublesome arguments in these discussions come when people let their emotional fears take over, and this was one of those times.  In essence, somebody who was 'in charge' of church could not handle the thought of no longer being in charge.  Whether it is race relations in South Africa in my lifetime or in the U.S. during reconstruction or the 60s, or whether it is issues of finance and power in the American economy, the question of who gets to be the Big Dog always comes up.  Those who are out of power want to be in, and while those in power are wholly suspicious of those who would usurp their authority.

It has always struck me as curious that even in our churches in which women do much of the unseen work that enables the church to operate that they do not speak up more about the inequality when it comes to who stands up in front of the church.  Maybe they agree with the detente that exists in the current church...maybe they just don't care that much.  But when we effectively curtail the ability of people to do what God may (again, that is questionable) have called them to do, the question of why those most impacted don't speak up has always troubled me.  Is it that they don't want to be in charge (and thus have responsibility)?  Or maybe it's just that they realize that it's a lot better to simply DO rather than fight about unanswerable questions?  My experience is that many women do great things without seeking permission from the men supposedly in charge...and because those in leadership positions weren't even anticipating that this work might get done it goes completely under their radar.

I do fear, though, that the day is coming when the women that are left (and many have left already, no longer willing to wait around for that day) decide to speak up in Churches of Christ; it's not that they will wrongly speak up, but that those defending their territory won't handle it very well.  There's nothing as dangerous as a desperate power class who cannot accept that their time is over.